Easing Back-to-School Jitters


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School bells are ringing and kids are everywhere. As you drive slowly through school zones, you can see and feel the excitement in the air. Kids are walking to school, getting out of buses, and being dropped off on the curb. Some of them look excited and are laughing, while others look confused, withdrawn and afraid. Parents have a powerful influence over their child no matter how old their child is in regards to their school-year success. Easing back-to-school jitters is an important step that parents should prepare for and encourage their child to prepare for as well.

School jitters don’t begin the first day of school. Most likely, they were going on during the last third of the summer. Sometimes parents are so busy with work and vacations that many forget to look for the signs. Did your child act more moody, restless, fatigued or erratic? Many kids have these feelings and adjust fine after school has started, but 15% do not. These 15% may have difficulty adjusting to the school year, and may require parental interventions to help them get on track.

How can you, as a parent, help your child adjust, so they feel confident and capable to handle the requirements for their grade level?

Begin by talking to your child and listening. Ask them how they feel about the new school year and if they are nervous about any particular aspect. If they tell you their fears, DO NOT try to talk them out of it. Listen and validate how they feel by telling them you can understand how their fears would be worrisome. Then help them write down alternatives they can act on if their fear comes true. For example: if your child is afraid they won’t have anyone to sit by during lunch, then write down three actions they could take. In this particular example, they could choose to sit with someone or organize a pizza party at their house to meet more kids prior to school beginning. This would help them break the ice in the comfort of their own home. Another option may be to have one friend they can call the night before school begins and make plans with that person to eat with them during lunch.

Do not ignore signs of distress. If sadness, anxiety, crying or anorexia goes on longer than two weeks, it isn’t a stage…it is a problem. Most problems that bring kids to counseling were not serious when they first began. They were denied until they became serious.

Plan with your child what supplies they need prior to school. Do they need a desk, computer or quiet area for schoolwork?

If your child is going away to school, they will be more secure if the structure of their room is complete. Kids away from home do better when they like their room and feel secure there. The same is true for your child at home. Everyone does better when they have their own space to work.

Encourage your child to set healthy expectations. It takes time to get into the groove of a new school year. This is true whether you are in college or grade school. After a short time of adjustment, you can raise your expectations as you have more experience to draw from in regards to what is expected.

If your child is going away to school, stay connected to them, but not intrusive. Let them know you are there and they have a secure home base. Be available, but give them space to work out their problems without intervening unless necessary.

If you notice your child is struggling and not able to cope, begin to talk to your child about visiting a counselor. Many times children do want help, but are afraid to ask. If parents talk to their children and reassure them that a counselor will be helpful, most children can talk to a counselor in regards to what they are feeling and how to better handle their concerns.

Here’s to a happy, healthy new school year.

Guest Article by Mary Jo Rapini, MEd, LPC, is a licensed psychotherapist and co-author with Janine J. Sherman, of Start Talking: A Girl’s Guide for You and Your Mom About Health, Sex or Whatever. Read more about the book at www.StartTalkingBook.com and more about Rapini at www.maryjorapini.com.

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August 13, 2014 – 9:49 AM - | Posted in back to school | No Comments »

GUARDIANS OF THE GALAXY LEGO-Inspired Video!!!


Marvel’s GUARDIANS OF THE GALAXY opens in theaters everywhere this Friday, August 1st!!

Check out this awesome new piececreated by Marvel and Lego fan, YouTube star Forrest Whaley! It’s so cool!!!

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July 31, 2014 – 12:35 PM - | Posted in Movies | No Comments »

Back to School with Label Daddy! 20% Off Coupon Code.


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Unfortunately (or fortunately however you look at it), it’s that time again… Time to think about BACK TO SCHOOL!! One of the common problems kids seem to have is loosing their supplies, so nip that in the bud now, with personalized labels from Label Daddy and keep their things, theirs! label dady school pack

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July 30, 2014 – 8:26 PM - | Posted in promotions | No Comments »

The Big Book Of Symptoms – A-Z Guide To Your Child’s Health *Giveaway*


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As a parent, when you have little ones you always have some sort of worry when they get sick or hurt, especially when a ‘first time’ happens. A lot of us run to the computer and Google or run to the phone and call some one we know, or the doctor on call. Most of the time it’s nothing, and we freak ourselves out, especially when it’s late at night and we have no one to turn to, Google can be your friend and enemy at the same time when trying to look up symptoms.

The Big Book of Symptoms is available to help parents in those times of need, you can quickly grab the book out of your bookshelf and instead of seeing the worst of the worst from Google, you get a clear image of symptoms and what might be going on, as well as what action you can take.

The Big Book of Symptoms can help you with minor everyday concerns to more serious conditions, it’s designed to help you, not scare you. From determining bug bites, bee stings, fever, rashes just about everything you can run into with a child.

There’s also a lot of aides in the book to help you calm a colicky baby, help your toddler with sleeping, helping your teens cope with things as well as a first aid guide for emergencies. This book isn’t just for parents of small children!

Edited by two esteemed members of AAP, Steven P. Shelov, MD, FAAP, and Shelly V. Flais, MD, FAAP, The Big Book of Symptoms is an A-Z directory and ultimate guide to over 100 of the most common childhood symptoms from infancy to adolescence.

You can purchase your own copy from Amazon.com or at Barnes & Noble.

One lucky reader from A Wrestling Addicted Mommy will win a copy of The Big Book Of Symptoms for their household. Entering is simple, just use the giveaway widget below, and be sure to complete the mandatory entry for all entries to be valid.

This is a great resource for parents, even with my kids at 8 and 10 I love having this book in our home, it helps out this paranoid mama a lot!

I have been compensated for this post however, all opinions are of my own. Please see my disclosure policy for more info.
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July 22, 2014 – 12:21 PM - | Posted in health, Reviews | 28 Comments »

Pear Up With Ritz Bits for Your Soccer Champion #RitzBitsTeams


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Being Italian, soccer tends to run in our blood. My oldest daughter has got that soccer fever running through her veins, she just loves playing it. My brother takes the time to teach her some great skills, and she heads out onto that field and gets physical when she needs to. Spring and Fall it’s all about soccer in our house.

With the world cup going on, we’ve had soccer fever this summer as well, although Italy didn’t continue on to the finals, we had fun while it lasted.

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With soccer, comes snacks. Usually a parent is responsible each week to bring something for the kids to refuel on after the game. A lot of times, soccer also includes fundraising. Equipment and uniforms aren’t cheap!

There’s a new program called Ritz Bits Snack For Your Champion Program and they have paired up with PearUp.com to use social networking to help teams raise funds.

PearUp.com is a social engagement platform. Your group can earn sponsorships through both local and national brands at no cost, yes that’s right, FREE! Pear launched in 2012 and began as a product launched by Apparel Media Group which is now a subsidiary of CostomInk, a 1,000+ person company that provides custom apparel and related solutions to millions of groups and occasions.

Pear is passionate about creating relationships between grossroots groups and events, brands and businesses nationwide. Groups can earn up to $1,000 within a 10 day time frame which they can use towards team apparel or just as a donation to their soccer team for league fees.

Team members complete digital steps on behalf of Ritz Bits that earn them dollars. You can like Ritz Bitz on Facebook, follow them on Instagram, or sign up for emails, it’s totally up to you, but for each step a team member completes, they get dollars towards their goals. The more tasks done, the more dollars you earn!

At the end of the 10 day period, the group leaders can claim an online certificate for the amount earned that is redeemable at any Pear printer, or a check can be made out to the individual in charge of financial’s for the team.

Ritz Bitz is always a great snacks for kids before, after or even on an off game day. And with their help with PearUp.com, they’ll continue to fuel kids who are passionate about soccer.  Take some time to create a Pear for your own team, or help another one out by visiting www.pearup.com.  If you do create a Pear for your team, please feel free to leave your link in the comments below so we can visit and help support!

This post is sponsored by Global Influence, all opinions are of my own. Please see my disclosure policy for more info.
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July 11, 2014 – 1:54 PM - | Posted in promotions | 1 Comment »
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